The Best of Buds

    

My boys

My biggest fear while being pregnant was that when Cohen would come, Brady wouldn't take a liking to him because technically, he was my first "baby."   Now don't get me wrong, Brady isn't too fond of the crying or fussing.  And he does get a tad pouty when Dad and I are playing and cooing with the little man.  And he doesn't like it when his Papa is feeding or playing with Cohen...but he has adjusted better to him, especially in the past few weeks.  Right now Cohen doesn't really notice Brady a whole lot, but I think as he gets older, Brady will be a little more tolerant of him.  He loves to lick Cohen's ears, chew his bones on his playmat and lay on his blanket during tummy time.  We laugh because I tell Brady he's still my first furry baby. :)  I'm curious to see how their relationship will grow as Cohen begins to crawl and chase him, but more importantly pull on those floppy sweet ears.  But if I've got it right, I'm thinking Brady will become protective of the little man as he grows up and I think they'll get along just fine.

Classic moment captured of Brady giving Cohen kissies.

How can you not love both of these faces??



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Cohen's First Christmas

  This year Christmas was truly a wonderful time.  For the past 3 years, it kind of has been a bit of a Debbie Downer, especially with my dad not having a job.  However, God worked in a little extra Christmas miracle for us and my dad finally got a job!!  So there was much to celebrate this year!  I spent hours (and too much money) shopping this year.  It was so fun to play Santa for Cohen!  Even though in all reality he won't remember a thing from this Christmas, it was sure fun picking out the presents, wrapping them and then helping him open the up.  Plus, little boy toys are getting to be a lot more fun. 

  We headed up to Goshen for our first road trip with little man.  It just reminded me that my car won't last past one baby.  Dear Lord was it packed!  I mean, we had every nook and cranny packed with stuff.  I don't know how my cousins did it with 2 in her little car for their first trip!  But Cohen did really well in the car - slept the whole trip both there and back.  There were a few scares, but I was very impressed with the little man.

  Christmas Eve day was spent with Kurtis' family.  We had a nice time over at Becky's place and Santa even came to visit!  Sadly, we forgot our camera at my parent's house and a classic moment would happen as Cohen pulled Santa's beard.  Of course he would!  Then that we evening we went over to my Aunt's house, but Cohey was just a little too cranky.  A good thing was that he slept from 9 until 730 on Christmas morning, not waking up once.  Now that was a good Christmas present!  My sister and brother in law came over all day Christmas Day and we spent the day with my family.  Favorite gift from Nana and Papa - a firetruck he can ride when he gets bigger.
  Overall it was a really great holiday season.  I'm looking forward to spending New Year's with my husband, little man and dog.   I hope you all had a fabulous Holiday and I'm getting excited to see what's in store for  2011!

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The Goldie Years

I will blog about Co's first Christmas later, however, I feel that this deserved its own blog considering it's importance.  Let's start from the beginning...
When I was 8 and in 3rd grade at St. John's, I won a fish in a ping pong toss game at the school carnival.  A beautiful gold, shiny fish with fins and everything! So excited to have my own first pet, I took the dazzling goldfish home in the plastic cup I was given.  But, before we made it home, we made a pit stop at the Stop Inn for dinner.  When we came out, Goldie was no where to be found...until my dad felt him under his car seat.  He scooped the flipping slimey creature up and threw it back into the cup, leaves and all.  Even after that trauma, 19 years later the fish is still kicking...until Christmas Day.  Sadly, Goldie waited until we were all together to pass away in her bowl Christmas morning.  There will be no burial at sea - I mean come on, have you ever owned a 19 year old goldfish?  I think not!  This fish has been through too much to just flush - better yet she will recieve a proper burial in the Richmond Pet Cemetary. So, here's to 19 years of fishful bliss Goldie.  You will be missed...especially by mom.

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To Cry or Not to Cry?

Apparently the world is a party that Cohen refuses to miss - well, at least it is when it comes to nap or bedtime.  The amount of sleep has gotten much better.  He'll go about 6 hours at night, eat and then sleep 3 or 4 more.  However, its the PROCESS now that is going to make my hair turn gray.  You can rock, sing, hum, swaddle, sway, rub,  pat and so on until the kid is out - like dead to the world.  And I mean dead weigth, mouth open, sawing logs.  But the second you put him in his crib those eyes fly open and SURPRISE!  I'm awake, Mom!  And then the process starts all over again...So we talked to the doctor at his 2 month visit and he said its fine to let him be restless and cry a little bit to help reinforce sleeptime.  As a mother though, it literally sucks hearing your child cry.  But I'm at the end of my rope with this whole sleep process.  He used to be a fabulous napper - but now he'll make his body fight it, kicking and crying, becoming Houdini and getting out of his swaddle no matter how tight it is and making sure he does not get that good 1 to 2 hour nap that I used to look forward to in the day.  I dread bedtime because he refuses to go to sleep - once again kicking, moving around, crying, escaping from his swaddle.  I guess its just a matter of making him realize that this is bedtime, you need to go to sleep.  So its all about time again, right? Sigh.

This is not a joke - this is what he does everyday at naptime or bedtime.  And he makes it harder by smiling, laughing and talking to you as if he knows , "Mom I'm too cute to sleep, come on!"

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The Magic of Mozart

I needed 5 - just 5 uninterrupted minutes to take a quick shower yesterday.  And all of a sudden it hit me - maybe Cohen would like a baby Mozart movie?  I mean, he seems extremely into his dad's nasty video games (which I continue to tell Kurtis are corrupting our son's mind but he seems to disagree with me).  So I found a short clip on the OnDemand section of our TV - 8 minutes to be exact.  I was a little unsure whether he'd like it or not.  Really, I was thinking he was too young and wouldn't understand it - but boy was I wrong.  The second I turned that video on his eyes were glued to the TV and he started jamming like nobody's business.  They showed all these different pictures with colors and shapes and numbers - honestly I thought it was the most boring thing I've ever seen but Cohen as hooked.  See what I mean:

It was the cutest thing I've ever seen (well, pretty much everything he does it cute but this is at the top of the list so far).  I don't feel too bad putting him in front of the TV because experts do say that early exposure to classical m'usic is great brain stimulation.  And the movie was literally 8 minutes - but it was the perfect "babysitter" for mommy's shower.  I even had time to shave my legs - imagine that!

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Little Man Ain't Such a Little Man

Yesterday was the infamous day that most, if not all, moms dread - the first round of shots.  As a mother you do everything in your power to protect your little one from the slightest bit of harm.  Now, imagine watching someone poke your precious baby 3 times with needles.  I'm not sure what is worse - the actually shots or the cries that come from your innocent baby.  BUT, CoCo survived and all is well.  Better news is the kid is a serious porkchop.  He's 13.5 lbs (almost double, yes double, his birth weight) and 24 1/4 inches long.  The kid great over 3 inches in 2 months!  Kurtis and I are a little baffled as to where this booger is getting his heigth because if you know me, I'm vertically challenged hence the addiction to my high heels.  However, we will embrace these grow spurts with open arms if it means a college scholarship is in his future.

Because of his stellar weight and eating abilities, we were able to start him on his first try of rice cereal.  We're still a little unsure, but we still had a fun time trying it out!

Regardless, more ends up on his face and bib instead of his mouth but we'll get used to it I'm sure.  Look at the stinker - he'll definitely never miss a meal!

**A quick sidenote - Cohen slept his first full 12 hours last night.  One quick feeding at 4:30 and we were out at 5 again.  I'm thinking its a combo of sleepiness and shots - because I don't want to get too hopeful...keep your fingers crossed!

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Big Boy is 2 Months - and Growing!

Happy 2 Month Birthday Coco Bear!



So my little Porker Pie, as my cousin likes to call him, is officially 2 months old today.  Once again I go through the same emotions that I always do when he hits an age milestone.  I'll look a the clock, then say to Kurtis, "2 months ago at this time we were..." and the pattern continues.  I'm not sure why I get just a tad bit weepy with every week that passes, but I feel the exact same everytime. 

Cohen's 2 month shots are on Wednesday - crossing my fingers about that one.  But I know he's over 13lbs and is at least 23 inches now.  He's outgrowing 0-3 months and is now in size 2 diapers.  The kid will eat 5 or 6 oz of breastmilk at a feeding - see why he's got the name Porker Pie?  I'm still waiting on the all night sleeping.  He's been doing a ton better however, sleeping 5-6 hours before a bottle, then back down for another 4ish.  I get a little sad when I talk to 2 of my friends who have babies born within days of Cohen and they tell me their babes are sleeping 7-8 hours or  at least through the night.  Patience is a virtue I must continue to tell myself...

He's starting to be more "fun" and responsive.  He loves to laugh and smile, kick his legs and suck his hands.  We are starting to have baby conversations together - or banguage as the Baby Whisperer would call it.  When its play time on the mat, Cohen is started to rock and roll back and forth from side to side.  I seriously am scared he's going to roll all the way over any second!

Nap time is so fun, Mom!

Time goes back so fast - I feel like just yesterday my good friend Roleen and I were secretly telling each other we were pregnant.  Actually, she was telling me she had a dream before I had even told anyone - that's a story I'll share later.  :)  Through thick and thin, no sleep, frustrations, screams, dirty diapers and spit ups, I have truly loved my experience as a mother - and I wouldn't trade it for anything!!

Brotherly love - can't deny it! :)

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Work? Nah, Who Needs It.

Today I went back to work - well, I tutored at GB for a whopping 2 hours.  Kurtis stayed with Cohen while in my mind I had a mental melt down.  I was so nervous beforehand I couldn't even eat lunch - seriously.  It was great seeing my class and co-workers, but I couldn't help thinking about spending more than the 3 or 4 hours away from my little man.  I kept tinking of all the "firsts" I was going to miss or how I would miss his smiling face when he woke up from nap or what if the sitter doesn't hold him when he cries or what if he gets sick and I'm not there.  Its motherly instinct I'm sure and I'm positivie all mothers in America have this fear as they get ready to go back to work.  But really, I still have a good 2 months left with my stinker and I'm already worrying about it.  In all reality I have to go back to work - that's not an option - so quit asking people :).  I need to enjoy the 4 months I get to stay with him and prepare myself later, right?  Oh boy, here come the waterworks already...

I mean seriously, who wouldn't miss this precious little thing??

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The Gift of Time

Everyone tells you that in time, it will happen.  Well, 8 weeks ago my son was born and I've patiently awaited each milestone.  The first time he rolled over was at 3 weeks - and I made sure my camera was on hand to capture the moment.  The first time he smiled at the sound of my voice made my heart melt - and continues to do so everytime he gurgles and gives me that gummy smile.  But now I am anxiously awaiting the first time he decides to sleep through the night consistently.  For the past few weeks he's been pretty good about sleeping at least 5 hours before his next feeding, but recently he's been a bear to put to sleep and keep asleep.  Our patience is wearing thin - which is normal for all parents.  But I hate feeling frustrated with him and just wish I could help smooth out the situation.  I've been reading the "Baby Whisperer" by Tracy Hogg and can't decide whether her methods have helped or hindered our situation.  I guess I need to just listen to him and continue our routine rather than listening to what the Baby Whisperer says should happen.  There is so much to learn as a first time parent, and despite the frustrations, I truly have loved the joys that motherhood brings everyday.

I mean really, how can you not love this cute little face??

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